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She's postponed our previous two dates before, and that was at a time that I didn't care. So unsure if it's the vibes.

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I was having a discussion with a male friend of mine in which he told me that his wife used to make a Christmas list every year. He'd get EVERYTHING on the list, thinking he was being the loving, doting husband. He found out YEARS later that she wanted him to actually GUESS what she REALLY wanted and get that. She only made the list so that she'd get SOMETHING. I know, I know - even as a woman, I have to chuckle at how silly it sounds.

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Ok what I bolded above is where I think your insecurity and impatience got the best of you. You could have said the rest of what you said to her and been fine and still shown that you don't want to waste your time and are deserving of an answer. I don't want to drag things out any longer, presumes a bad ending. It's demanding and comes from a negative place and is not confident. The rest of what you said sounds like good communication that comes from a positive, caring place and is your best chance. It also sounds confident and implies that you are assessing the relationship without sounding overly emotional about it nor too invested. You can also do it by matching, as Oregon dude said, the time frame one takes to get back to you. Or match the actions. Or this one is a little game play-y but sometimes I'm not above advising that: when she said she has her independent life, you could have responded: yeah you are right we did kind move things a little fast and I totally get it; there are some things I've been neglecting too. It was just exciting and I got caught up in the moment. The reason that it's game play-y is that is obviously not how you are feeling when you are hearing this for the first time. However, it's really not when you are able to catch your breath, take a step back and realize that if she is dialing down, you want to dial it down too. She is not the only fish in the sea. I mean you said it yourself: that you did not exactly feel as good about her based on her saying/doing this, right? And reasonably, realistic you knows in some ways she is right about this. You will have other options. Operate from a place of abundance and certainty in yourself and your attractiveness. In some ways responding in kind, and specifically like this in this instance provides a reset. It's like a reset button. Basically you are matching her step for step with your/her pace. Now if this is inauthentic to you it's not going to work. But logical, confident you should be able to do this: provide she is holding your interest, no one else comes along and she is not unreasonable with her level of contact. So see why it's important to remain in the moment? Don't jump further ahead than what you are receiving. See when I read her sentence to you, it sounds good and honest. I see it as positive and you are just going too fast for her. Sure it's possible you are just one of several options to her but like you said before, it's open-ended. Think positive from that reply. Your actions and communication will reflect that you see it as such and you will have better results.